Pretty girls intimidating guys
Back when I was shy, I remember I kept having to think I had to “hide” the fact I had never had a girlfriend.I thought that if the girl realized from the way I acted that I was romantically or sexually inexperienced, then that meant she would just get up and leave automatically.Would you think that a lottery winner was superior to you?Another way of feeling inferior is thinking that being less experienced than the girl with relationships will immediately make you repulsive to her.Many shy people have a constant stream of thoughts that point out what a loser they are.If you constantly think about why you’re a loser, how you aren’t good looking, how you have some physical flaw that needs to be fixed, how you’re a loner with little or no friends, how you’ve never even kissed a girl, etc … By being too hard on yourself and being insecure about your appearance you are constantly reinforcing the idea in your mind that you are inferior to the girl.Bookmark this page now so you can come back to it again and again. From my experience teaching hundreds of shy people over the past couple of years, both guys and girls, I’ve found the cause of most shyness is a feeling of inferiority. Meanwhile around a girl you find attractive your mind suddenly goes blank and you can’t think of what to say. The solution is, of course, to stop placing so much value on looks.If you feel you are somehow “less valuable” than the girl, then you will feel shy and nervous around her. Treat an attractive girl in the same casual, natural way you would treat a guy friend or unattractive girl.
Your looks don’t matter nearly as much as you think they do. All the good looking girls are around the confident, popular, charismatic guys.Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.Do not put the girl on a pedestal before you even know her. That’s why so many women give guys the advice to “be yourself.” They don’t like it when a guy is trying hard to impress them and get them to like him.Especially when they haven’t done anything to deserve his attention yet except looking pretty.