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Sending a message on a dating site

Men get nervous about gettting shut down just like women do.Not too sure someone 20 years old, who lives with parents, young, obvioulsy inexpreienced online dater should be on dating sites at all.That being said, you need to follow the same rules we guys need to and not send messages like, "Hey, I looked at your profile and you seem like a pretty chill guy...are you doing? Mention something about them that you like at the very least.I've received messages from women that I didn't even see in a search before.If you like a guy and compliment him on something he will appreciate it and have a better day even if he might not be interested in you.Just like we have to be ready for rejection don't take it personal if the feeling isn't mutual, if he does not like you than he is not worth the emotion of caring about it :p I welcome it.I can tell you at least in my case, when women send me messages I don't think of them as desperate in the slightest bit.I think of them as being more proactive and it's nice knowing from the start that they are into you enough to take the plunge.

If you want an equal, be an equal, and that goes for contacting and pursuing those that you want to know much better.I think a lot of guys would be happy, and relieved to get a message from a woman they are interested in.I takes all the pressure off, because you know she is already interested.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...

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Women sending the first message? self. OkCupid. These are usually spam bots designed to get you to sign up on a pay dating site or porn site. 
19-Jun-2018 14:10
I struggle with sending messages on dating sites. What a good first message to send? like i dont want to come off creepy but i want to come off interested that i wanna chat. 
19-Jun-2018 14:12
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Why Do Guys Send Text Messages To Keep In Touch While Dating? Over the last several months. That’s exactly the message these guys are sending you. 
19-Jun-2018 14:20
Online Dating 101 7 Steps To Writing A Standout First Message. a girl on an online dating site. not just sending a carbon copy out to anyone. 
19-Jun-2018 14:24
Hey guys, how do you generally feel about a girl sending you the first message? I've heard mixed reviews, but more often than not, most dating experts said that it makes you sound desperate. 
19-Jun-2018 14:27
SENDING AND RECEIVING MESSAGES. There are a number of reasons why the person may not have replied to your instant message. Free Dating Site - Mingle 2 Blog. 
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